Available for longer calls
6:00 PM – 9:00 PM
Only mutual matches
Before each event, like the people you want to talk with. Event night pairs you only with people who liked you back.
Coming soon to iPhone and Android
Skip the texting and start connecting.
Speak with up to 10 matches on event night. Calls start with voice then add video, so you can feel the mental-emotional connection on its own first.
- Mutual matches only
- Voice first, then video
- For adults 18 and over
Why You+Love
Less browsing. More connecting.
Most dating apps keep you scrolling and messaging. And if you’re trying to see if you have a connection with someone, wouldn’t you rather talk with them?
Voice first, then video
Every Connection-Layered Call™ starts with 5 minutes of voice, then 2 minutes of video. Rather stay on voice or jump straight to video? You can!
A clear next step
After each call you both choose: not interested, a longer call, or a date. A next step happens only when you both want one.
How it works
From a like to a date in four steps
- 1
Register for an event
Pick an event near you in the app. You’ll see the price before you pay.
- 2
Like who you want to talk with
Before the event, like the people you’re open to getting to know better. A like back makes a match.
- 3
Talk on event night
Join from your phone. Your calls open one after another: up to 10 seven-minute calls, each with a match.
- 4
Plan what’s next
When you both want more, book a longer call or a date from your match’s open times.
Event night
Two hours. Up to ten conversations.
Here’s how a You+Love event goes, from the first hello to the closing.
- 5 minutes before
Join from the Events tab
The app counts down to your first call and tells you who it’s with.
- Every call
7 minutes: voice, then video
Five minutes of voice, then two of video. When time’s up, your next call opens on its own.
- Between calls
A minute to answer
How did it go? And a quick Safety & Respect check.
- After the last call
The Closing
In the app
Between events, keep connecting
The App view in Discover shows other members near you. Like, match, and book a call with them, no event night needed.
Like
Like members you’d like to talk with.
Match
A like back makes a match.
Book a call
Pick a time from your match’s open times.
Safety
Respect is built into every call
Selfie and ID check
Signup asks for a selfie and a photo of a government ID, and our team reviews them.
Your number stays private
Calls happen inside the app. Nobody sees your phone number, and calls are never recorded.
A check-in after every call
Did you feel disrespected? Did anything make you feel unsafe? If something made you feel unsafe, the match ends and our team takes a look.
Report or block anytime
From a profile, a call, or a chat, report or block in a few taps. A block hides you from each other and cancels the plans you made.
Pricing
Pay for the events you choose
Booking an event starts your membership for the month, with full use of the app, including Discover between events. There’s no separate subscription fee, and the more events you go to, the less each one costs.
See pricingYour first event in a monthFull price
Events 2 to 5$10 each
Event 6 and onFree
For events 2 to 5, if an event’s own price is under $10, you pay that instead.
Coming soon
Coaching, for the dating you want
We’d be honored to help you become the best version of yourself, ready for the right relationship. Choose the topics you’d want help with in the app’s Coaching tab and join the waitlist.
- First date prep
- Better conversations
- Confidence
- Mixed signals
- Dating burnout
FAQ
Questions, answered
What happens at an event?
An event is an evening of back-to-back calls in the app. Each call lasts 7 minutes, with a minute in between to answer two quick questions. You can have up to 10 calls, and the whole event runs about two hours.
Who will I talk with?
Only your mutual matches. Before the event, you see the people registered for it who fit what you’re looking for, and who are looking for someone like you. Like the people you want to talk with. When someone likes you back, you’re a match.
On event night, the app schedules your calls with your matches, starting with the ones you both marked as a priority.
Do I need to go anywhere?
No. Events happen in the app, wherever you are. Find a quiet spot with good light and a steady connection, and you’re set.
Do I have to be on video?
No. Every call starts with 5 minutes of voice, and video opens for the last 2 minutes. If either of you would rather stay on voice, tap Remain voice only and the call stays on voice for both of you.
How much does it cost?
You pay for the events you choose. Your first event in a membership month costs its full price, events 2 to 5 that month cost $10 each (or the event’s own price, if lower), and event 6 and beyond are free.
Your membership, with full use of the app, comes with the events you book. See Pricing for the details.
Is everyone verified?
Everyone is asked for a selfie and a photo of a government ID when they sign up, and our team reviews them.
Your next great conversation is one event away
Register for an event, like the people you’re curious about, and spend an evening talking with your matches.