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Child Safety Standards

Last updated October 7, 2026

Draft for legal review. This page describes how the app works today, but it hasn’t been reviewed by a lawyer yet and may change before launch.

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  1. Adults only
  2. What’s never allowed
  3. How to report it
  4. What we do
  5. Contact us

You+Love is a dating app for adults 18 and older, run by You+ LLC. We have zero tolerance for child sexual abuse and exploitation (CSAE), including child sexual abuse material (CSAM). These standards apply to everyone who uses You+Love, and to everything shared in the app.

Adults only

  • Everyone must be 18 or older. Signup asks for a birth date, a selfie, and a photo of a government ID, and our team reviews them.
  • Members only ever see people 18 and over.
  • If we learn that someone under 18 has an account, we remove it.

What’s never allowed

  • Sharing, asking for, or making sexual images or videos of anyone under 18, including drawn, edited, or AI-made ones
  • Sexualizing a minor in any way, in photos, prompts, messages, or calls
  • Grooming, or any attempt to contact, meet, or exploit a minor
  • Sextortion: threatening to share someone’s intimate images unless they send more or pay
  • Trafficking, or any attempt to buy, sell, or trade a child
  • Using You+Love to find or reach anyone under 18

How to report it

  • In the app, tap the flag by their name, or hold a photo, prompt answer, or message, then choose Report and the reason Under 18. These reports are urgent, and our team reviews them first.
  • By email, with or without an account: [email protected]. Please don’t attach or forward any image of a minor. Tell us where it is instead.
  • If a child is in immediate danger, call 911.
  • You can also report child sexual exploitation to NCMEC’s CyberTipline at report.cybertip.org or 1-800-843-5678.

What we do

  • An urgent report hides the reported member from new people right away, until our team reviews it.
  • We remove CSAM and anything that sexualizes a minor as soon as we find it, along with the account that shared it.
  • We report CSAM to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC), as US law requires, and work with law enforcement.
  • We keep what we report for as long as the law requires.
  • Someone we remove can’t sign up again with the same phone number or email address.
  • Photos are checked automatically when they’re uploaded, and nude or sexually explicit ones are refused.

Contact us

Questions about these standards, or about child safety on You+Love: [email protected]. Our Community Guidelines cover the rest of what isn’t allowed.

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